Description
THE WHITE ICEBERG but stained OF MARRIAGE
So often tainted by what your husband or boyfriend, will never admit!
eBook for adults (18+)
255 pages and 42,544 words
Shared victory in a relationship:
THE WHITE ISBERG but stained OF MARRIAGE
Shared victory in a relationship:
Beneath the white, immaculate surface of marriage, like a majestic iceberg, lies a far more complex truth, floating on a delicate balance. This book explores what love blinds us to at the start of a romance and also reveals the other side of the iceberg—with its successive little blemishes, surprises, disappointments and all the shades of grey that make pure love less immaculately white. It becomes murky and, ultimately, far more realistic. Everyone knows that the submerged part of the iceberg is far vaster than the magnificent islet or that creamy, pearly white expanse that emerges from it. As you turn the pages, you will realise that for the couple, it is vaster and more devastating than the idealised dream of the early days. Far from illusions, this book invites you to navigate the white reefs of an ocean that has grown cold, with its challenges, its disillusions, its dangers, its harsh words, sometimes its low blows, and all the depth hidden behind a luminous apparent purity.
First topic: Men in their thirties
This phase weighs heavily on this love (which is, in theory, meant to last forever), but Fleur reveals various aspects of it and backs up her claims with evidence—that is, real-life experience, ‘the absolute truth’—drawn from an in-depth study of thousands of men in relationships. This so-called ‘men’s thirties’ represents one of the possible reasons that can one day put a couple in ‘quarantine’—a chilly period that can quickly turn into an ice age, but one that needs warming up as soon as possible so that the marriage doesn’t get trapped in the ice.
The 2nd topic: the scourge of the couple
A woman’s lack of appetite, a taboo subject within the couple, swept under the carpet of indifference and far more common than one might think. Some sound advice may help shed light on this sad situation, but it is very difficult to achieve this as it is, first and foremost, a matter of appetite. A failing or absent libido is driven by a lack of desire as difficult to treat as anorexia, and which is lost in the depths of the female psyche.
And what about the 3rd topic, you might ask?
Well, this one is the icing on the cake, as you’ll discover in Fleur Desmâles’ detailed account, which argues that weariness in a relationship is a source of future conflict, whereas pleasure transcends it.
